Recently me and a friend have been going through the shits about how we should be healthier and more active - 'excersicewise'- only to realize that at this moment in our lifes we are so deep in responsabilities that we barely have time to sleep (and well who is going to put off sleeping for the gym after a 14 hour day of work). The preassure of the 'lovely' world we live in right now eats away at us every fucking day; society has this mindset on how girls should look and guys have set their standards to levels that mean starvation and 2 hour workout at the gyms.
Ok, so a decent built and good looking guy attracts me as much as amthe next girl but the fact of the matter is that relationships or 'judgments' should go deeper than your pant size or how many salads you eat a day.
I have come to learn an appreciate how important a good mental connection with somebody else is worth, and how the simple of fact of being able to talk for hours naturally is something that money simply cannot buy.
This is why I think and say that people should follow their gut when it comes to chemistry, flow, natural connection, these are things that if they're effortless, then all you really need besides them is a little work. Minds, ideas, philosofies are becoming so much sexier and 'a must' than fat or skinny someone is. There is, by far, nothing more incredible than a person who blows your mind with words, with not needing to lay a finger on you (of course, if I'm being naughty - and I almost always am - the combination of the two are never a bad thing).
N.