Ok, so let's face it. You're in your 20s single, bored and probably sick of feeling like maybe you picked the wrong major which means you think you've wasted time you won't get back or you're terrified of what your life will be in the future.
We've all been there (some of us are still there) and those stupid little ideas and thoughts we believe for some reason are always in the back of our minds, eating away at us.
Well, you know what? I say fuck that. Yesterday, while I was enjoying a few drinks and admiring a Gia Coppola type of party set up, I stared off into the DJ and the lights and I just thought about life. My life. It just sunk in.
I realized that people worry about so many things and never take the time to admire every experience they've been thru and how it has made them into who they are. I mean, we never just sit down and say 'I've lived'; we never just accept everything as it is and let it be.
I learned that life is simple, either something happens or it doesn't, it's a yes or a no, a jump or a walk. The people who are in your life right now, they are the ones who will be around; those people that actually ask you how you are, those are the ones worth keeping and fighting for.
We've made life seem such a complicated and terrible place without taking a second to realize that the breakup, fight, failed grade, lost phone, book read, have all led us to this moment. This is who you are. You make the calls, you live, you chose to do or to not do. You decide wether you want the colors or the black and whites.
Don't for a second change the place you're in, do what you feel, what makes you happy.
These years, these are the ones we have to look back on, to learn from. Don't let anyone or anything take them away from you.
Yours,
N.