"Nothing is as it seems" or "rien n'est ce qu'il semble" in french sums up life, in my opinion. Lately, it is incredibly easy for things to appear something when they are in fact, absolutely different. We get played by our own subconcious and are fooled to believe looks, words, actions, texts, pictures, relationships (friendly or more) mean we are loved, wanted, hated, and every possible human emotion that drives us through life. This is why it is incredibly ironic how, in a generation where everything is so simple to show or say, we choose to believe that which is not publicized, instagramed, 'shared', etc. We have become so afraid to face reality that we base our lifes on tiny mixed signs. Shit. We think a kiss means they care, a text means they think about us, an invitation means interest, an unfollow means they can't stand you and a stalker means you're doing somthing right.
I get being afraid of the truth, of getting hurt, of disappointment but fuck, people need to start communicating rather than making up fictional conclusions out of pointless and isolated incidents. You want to know if they care: ask; you want to know what they did: ask; you want more love: say it; you want something different: SAY IT. Don't think that by acting a certain way or not saying certain things that your point gets across to that other person. S-P-E-A-K to each other, DO NOT take everything for granted from a picture, comment or fucking like. There are few worst things than regret and the bittersweet 'what ifs' that seem to haunt us every day. Don't get caught up in this world of appereances, looks, attitudes, just say whatever the fuck you are feeling. Don't turn into something that seems one way but isn't for everyone's sake, specially your own.
N.